Now that you are broken up, the two of you are actually in a psychological war that may end well if you know what to do.
Mind Game 1
Go with the flow of things. After the breakup, the two of you are going to be on an emotional roller coaster ride. Get ready for this. It is normal for you both to get cold with each other - the trick is to remain aloof and seem unaffected. You want your partner to think you are unaffected with the breakup - to keep your emotions hidden. This makes your ex wonder if leaving you was a good idea to begin with; it gives you power in the relationship again, which is very important.
Mind Game 2
You might feel tempted to constantly call or text your ex, telling them you love and miss them and you want to get back together. This could be the worst mistake of any that youd make. You want to look cool, not desperate. Desperation drives the person away. They will just get annoyed and angry and push further away from you.
Mind Game 3
Win their heart back by changing your old, sloppy habits. Now is your time to change everything about yourself you dont like (And your ex probably didnt either.) Try to be the person you were when the two of you first met. Who was that person your ex fell in love with, the first time? Have you changed drastically from that person? Showing your ex that you can change will surprise them AND touch their heart.
Mind Game 4
Give your ex the silent treatment. Instead of talking to your ex, hang out with your friend instead, as much as you possibly can. When your ex sees that you are not speaking to him or her, it will make them totally nuts. It will slowly kill them and make them desperate for you. Warning: dont overdo this or it could backfire on you.
Mind Game 5
Upgrade your looks and personal being. While youre away from your ex, why not try to get a new look and get in shape? Dress to kill. Make yourself presentable. If you run into your ex, you can present yourself as whole and new. Let your persona grow. Exercise will release endorphins that boost your mood...
And you will be in shape and be a head-turner again, making your ex come back to you.
Mind Game 6
Get popular. Tell your exs friends and family good things about the person. You might want to have their friends and family on your side - which actually makes your ex like you more too.
Mind Game 7
Start over brand new by inviting your ex on a date. But be cool and casual. Dont talk about the breakup. This is a time to just be like friends again. Be kind, and familiar, but try to not bring up old bad memories.
Now, go get em, tiger!
Mind Game 1
Go with the flow of things. After the breakup, the two of you are going to be on an emotional roller coaster ride. Get ready for this. It is normal for you both to get cold with each other - the trick is to remain aloof and seem unaffected. You want your partner to think you are unaffected with the breakup - to keep your emotions hidden. This makes your ex wonder if leaving you was a good idea to begin with; it gives you power in the relationship again, which is very important.
Mind Game 2
You might feel tempted to constantly call or text your ex, telling them you love and miss them and you want to get back together. This could be the worst mistake of any that youd make. You want to look cool, not desperate. Desperation drives the person away. They will just get annoyed and angry and push further away from you.
Mind Game 3
Win their heart back by changing your old, sloppy habits. Now is your time to change everything about yourself you dont like (And your ex probably didnt either.) Try to be the person you were when the two of you first met. Who was that person your ex fell in love with, the first time? Have you changed drastically from that person? Showing your ex that you can change will surprise them AND touch their heart.
Mind Game 4
Give your ex the silent treatment. Instead of talking to your ex, hang out with your friend instead, as much as you possibly can. When your ex sees that you are not speaking to him or her, it will make them totally nuts. It will slowly kill them and make them desperate for you. Warning: dont overdo this or it could backfire on you.
Mind Game 5
Upgrade your looks and personal being. While youre away from your ex, why not try to get a new look and get in shape? Dress to kill. Make yourself presentable. If you run into your ex, you can present yourself as whole and new. Let your persona grow. Exercise will release endorphins that boost your mood...
And you will be in shape and be a head-turner again, making your ex come back to you.
Mind Game 6
Get popular. Tell your exs friends and family good things about the person. You might want to have their friends and family on your side - which actually makes your ex like you more too.
Mind Game 7
Start over brand new by inviting your ex on a date. But be cool and casual. Dont talk about the breakup. This is a time to just be like friends again. Be kind, and familiar, but try to not bring up old bad memories.
Now, go get em, tiger!
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